All Together Now… 1, 2, 3…. HOW!?!?!?

Morning Everyone…

I have been getting quite a few phone calls and emails about how you are all enjoying my blogs… and I am thrilled – who knew that my strong opinions would ever serve me well…

Many of you don’t know that I have the ability to speak 5 languages… English (probably my worst language), German (fluently), French, Japanese and Persian Farsi (my newest and not quite mastered yet).. language is something that I have had a long lasting relationship with.. it fascinates me, intrigues me, encapsulates me and more importantly fills me with utter enjoyment.  Simply understanding how a language is spoken… and not just what the words mean really “floats my boat” – I see it as understand the “art of the language” and not just “what word means what”.

I think this is an important distinction in most areas of life… the “how” versus the “what”… and it so neatly brings me to the 4th thing that I really wish mentors, coaches, and so called “experts” understood… Business owners want the tools of HOW to do things… not just theory (what)…

For example I could learn the word for “love” in German…. “liebe” – but if I wanted to tell someone I loved them then suddenly I would go into overwhelm as I wouldn’t know “how” to construct a sentence to be able to express myself properly… but as soon as I learned the grammar, the nuances, the tonality and where to place the emphasis I would know exactly how to tell someone I loved them…”Ich liebe dich”, or “Ich liebe Sie” (dependant on the person and the relationship)… then what happens if I turn it into past tense “Ich liebte Sie”.  So as you can see, just having the word “liebe” doesn’t get you very far.

Just like being told “go and do online marketing”, “go and sell into corporates”, “come up with a new offline marketing campaign”, “sell it from stage”… is great information – but is worth didlisquat unless you know HOW to do these things.

I so often see business owners who have all the theories, all the “what” the “liebe”- have been to the seminars, taken the courses but never been shown the “HOW” – they don’t have a system in place to complete all of the action items and quickly, but very surely, they enter into the state of overwhelm… where they get lost, disalusioned and quite frankly… peeved at all the money they spent on hearing more theories…. and as I have too been put in that position… I say it’s time to take a stand…..

It’s time for these mentors, coaches and so called “experts” to take a very long hard look in the mirror and stop spouting “liebe” and start educating their clients in “ich liebe dich”….

So folks… stand with me… post a comment to show these “WHAT” sayers that we are ready to hear the HOW… the art of business….

Cheers

N

Sick of hearing…”No… that’s not a niche!”

Happy Friday Everyone…..

I absolutely love Fridays… for it means that I can complete the admin stuff for the week, have a 5.30pm meeting with the girls at Happy Hour at the wine bar next door, and of course… take some time out to write a blog.

Last week I started talking about what some mentors, business coaches and so called “experts” are saying and doing to their business owner clients… and quite frankly, its not all good!  I also highlighted 7 areas in which I think I have discovered what the Australian Business Owner truly wants from their chosen “mentor”…  Here is a reminder…

1. Someone who is willing to understand them and their business – not create a business for them that they don’t actually feel connected to. For example…. instead of being dismissive and saying “NO…that’s not a niche”… work out how their passion could be a niche!  Sounds simple right?
2. Don’t give them a whole load of rehashed american concepts that have NOT been tried and tested in this market
3. Understand when online marketing works… and more importantly when it DOESNT!
4. They want the tools of HOW to do things… not just theory…
5. They want you!  That is why they signed to be with you, to learn from you, to find out the strategies that worked for you and most importantly they want the systems that you have… so give it to them…. That’s what you are being paid for!
6. They want you to deliver what you promise… if you promise small classroom sizes and access to you… then don’t put them in a room of 35 and give them a “bees dick” amount of time with you… they want someone who “means what they say, and says what they mean!”
7. Their business isn’t just about marketing…. they want your professional opinion on all areas of the business… this means they want you to get a little more in-depth than just “What is your ideal day”

I wanted to have a closer look at point 1… “Someone who is willing to understand them and their business – not create a business for them that they don’t actually feel connected to. For example…. instead of being dismissive and saying “NO…that’s not a niche”… work out how their passion could be a niche!  Sounds simple right?”

It is very rare that a person will wake up one morning and say “I am going to start a business today!”… normally it has been on their mind for sometime, it has been a small urge that has manifested its way through the skin until it bursts out and says “Yup… I am finally going to do it…” – which means it is also very rare, that someone doesn’t know what kind of business they want to run.  It may be a cafe, it may be a coaching service it may be a software development company… whatever it is, that person has been thinking, contemplating, dreaming and weighing up the risks about owning this business for a while – that in itself deserves respect.

I have had too many people come to me recently and say “my last mentor said…NO… that’s not a niche, find something else”… which I can understand to a point… but definitely do not endorse this disrespectful behaviour.  Sometimes business owners do get overly excited with their passion, or an idea… and forget to do their due diligence and find out if there is a market for their actual business idea or not…. Please note…. just because your idea may not have a market… doesn’t mean it’s not a good idea for a business… you may just need to tweak certain elements, talk about certain topics and pain points and hit the right markers to find the market you are after….

What I see next is the most concerning of all…. once these “mentors” have disrespected your feelings, trampled on your ideas, and squashed the passion out of you… they then recommend a few niches that you should go into to make money.  Great… go into a new business idea with no passion, no sense of belonging and no real connection to the new business…. how do you think that is going to work for you??  Not well at all…. then comes the inevitable confusion.  ”I thought I wanted to run my own business, but I don’t really like what I am doing”..”I’m not sure I really have a clear vision of what I am doing…”…”I am completely confused as to where to start” – ring a bell with anyone out there?

This is what happens when a business idea or niche gets forced onto someone.. You don’t need to be someone else in order to have a successful business.  All you need to do is work to your strengths, think about what it is you love to do, then find what the market wants as a solution and provide it….

It seems so logical and simple, yet this is something I face nearly everyday with people coming to me for help in their businesses…

I am curious, what you your opinions are on this subject?

Have a great day all

Cheers

N

What business owners really want….

Afternoon folks…

My two last blogs around mastermind groups have certainly got people talking, people calling, people reblogging and most importanting people THINKING about what it is that they actually want as business owners.  There seems to be common themes running throughout, and that’s why it has baffled me somehwhat that there are still business coaches, mastermind groups and the likes there of… that still don’t get it!

I recently had a client come to me from a business coach, who was advised to change their whole branding to become a character that simply isn’t them…. they were advised to have the word “chick or gal” in their business name, even though this person is a mature woman who wants to approach corporates…. ummm mismatch much?  It seems that these coaches and mentors are forgetting the fundementals here… your clients wants you to understand them, work your magic around their businesses and not create a business or brand that fits your needs and agendas….

So lets take this a step further… what is it that business owners want from a business coach, a mastermind mentor or “an expert”?

Here is what I have found that they want….

1. Someone who is willing to understand them and their business – not create a business for them that they don’t actually feel connected to. For example…. instead of being dismissive and saying “NO…that’s not a niche”… work out how their passion could be a niche!  Sounds simple right?
2. Don’t give them a whole load of rehashed american concepts that have NOT been tried and tested in this market
3. Understand when online marketing works… and more importantly when it DOESNT!
4. They want the tools of HOW to do things… not just theory…
5. They want you!  That is why they signed to be with you, to learn from you, to find out the strategies that worked for you and most importantly they want the systems that you have… so give it to them…. That’s what you are being paid for!
6. They want you to deliver what you promise… if you promise small classroom sizes and access to you… then don’t put them in a room of 35 and give them a “bees dick” amount of time with you… they want someone who “means what they say, and says what they mean!”
7. Their business isn’t just about marketing…. they want your professional opinion on all areas of the business… this means they want you to get a little more in-depth than just “What is your ideal day”

I think these 7 items have been the most requested and complained about in regards to mastermind groups and business coaches… so what I thought I would do, is over the next week – is write a little bit of information on the importance of all these areas…

If you think I have left anything out, please let me know… dead keen to give as much info to you business owners out there… and who knows, maybe even some coaches and mentors!

Cheers

N